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Dear Torri,
I recently bought a house around Oct 2009. I am 33 and I have a 37 year old boyfriend. He comes over EVERYDAY around the time I get off work, sometimes earlier, and he spends the night. I noticed he has clothes over my house as if he has moved in. I really do like him, but I don't believe in living together before marriage. I have addressed this issue to him, but he says, he wants to make sure I am the right one and that we should live together first. On the weekends he brings his daughters (he has 2) 8 & 10 years old over to spend the night at my home. I really don't mind the girls visiting but I am the one who has to buy their food. Cook it and make sure the girls have snacks. This is ok with me, but, last month the girls mother was in my house when I returned home from work. He claim she was dropping them off and had to use my restroom and they just started talking about the girls, and didn't noticed the time. I didn't have a problem with that. Now she calls him at my home late at night, and he says they are just growing up and becoming the parents they should be. I told him she could call there but not late at night.
Am I being stupid? Am I being used? What should I do?
Karlita,
Dear Karlita,
You are a bit confusing! You say you don't believe in living together before marriage, but he's there everyday and sleeps with you every night! You say you don't mind the girls sleeping over on the weekends, but you complain about having to provide for them. You don't mind his daughter's mother calling your home, just not late at night!
To answer your questions, are you being stupid? YES
Are you being used? YES
What should you do? MOVE ON!!!