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By Dr. Torri Evans



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Dear Torri,

My daughter's best friend does not dress like a girl at all. She dresses very much like a guy. I asked my daughter about her. My daughter says her best friend loves boys but she feels she has skinny legs and she never wears a dress. I said ok, but what about her tops, they are shirts not blouses? She said her friend says she has small breast and is ashamed to wear sexy blouses with her small breast. I said ok, but what about her face?  She has a beard!!!! At the age of 14 she has a full beard.  My daughter says its hereditary. My daughter has a boyfriend  so I don't think she is gay, but I feel her friend is. What do you make of this? Am I wrong for thinking her best friend gay? Am I over reacting?


Macio,

Dear Macio,

Lot's of women don't wear dresses for certain reasons; Legs to skinny. Legs to fat. Knees to fat. To many scars on the legs. Knee operations. Cankles ( calf and ankels same size). Etc......  Lots of women refuse to wear certain types of blouses for many reasons; blouses not made for decent women. Have to wear Camisole underneath. Chest to big or too small whatever the reason... but..come on...a full beard.. at 14... on a girl?  Send me a picture, because its really hard to believe that a 14 year old girl has a full grown beard.  However, I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm just saying, it's not natural. 

Couseling advised.